Incorporate Wellness into Your Maternity Leave
Before I headed to the hospital in labor, I packed my overnight bag with pre-pregnancy clothes, assuming that I would be able to fit into them moments after the birth. I was mistaken—and had to send my husband home to fetch my maternity pants so I would have something besides a hospital gown to wear on the ride home.
I lost a mere 9 pounds and 5 ounces when my son came out; the rest of the weight remained accompanied by some post-baby blues. Once back home, I desperately wanted to lose the weight, reenergize, and recapture my zest for life, but I was exhausted, overwhelmed, and afraid to leave my newborn’s side for even a second. So, I devised health and wellness practices that allowed me to restore my mind and body with a baby on board. Follow these tips for a healthy maternity leave.
Join a New Mother’s Group
Spending time with new mothers is therapeutic. In your post-partum state, you need empathy—your mother, who has glamorized having a newborn, and your husband or partner, who just can’t understand the emotional rollercoaster you are on, are not the people to go to. You need someone who understands the intricacies of the diaper trade, nursing, out-of-control hormones, and flabby bellies. Don’t underestimate the power of this support group.
Take Stroller Walks
Put the baby in the stroller and go outside. A brisk daily walk will provide fresh air and burn some calories. Walk a little further each day to increase the exercise benefits. Sure, it’s much easier to spend your days sleeping and nursing, but it’s also depressing. During the day, drag members of your moms group along with you and enlist your partner to accompany you on an after-work walk in the evenings. Babies often calm down in their strollers and it will give the two of you a chance to talk about the day’s events. As your energy increases, walk steep hills with the stroller to give yourself a calf workout and a deeper burn.
Do Crunches
Stomach crunches and sit-ups are a good way to start the day and tighten up abdominal muscles that stretched during pregnancy. Get your baby into the act.
- Start out in the basic crunch position;
- Bring your knees toward your chest at a 90-degree angle;
- Place your exercise partner, aka, your baby, on your calves, hold hands, and crunch.
This was a great way to exercise while looking at my son’s cute little face. He would gurgle and giggle as my face went in and out of his focal range.
Get Regular Massages
Massages are hard to arrange when you don’t want to leave your little one, so call on your support group for help on this one. Invite your girlfriends over and hire a masseuse to come to the house. By now, you all know each other (and each other’s babies) well enough to leave your baby in the room with the group so you can go into an adjoining room and enjoy your massage. All mothers deserve a massage and the health and wellness benefits of receiving one are immense.
Try Non-Traditional Workouts
Substitute an infant carrier for weights and do some bicep curls with your baby. This will tone your arms, raise your heart rate, and amuse the baby, as well. In addition to stroller walks, take daily car trips. I can’t stress how important it is for your psyche to get out of the house and be around people. Whether you are going to the bookstore or the local market, park as far away as possible. On the walk from the car, perform a few reps with the infant carrier. Make sure to switch sides for even toning.
While none of these exercises and activities alone will deliver your old self, they will inspire you to get out there, get active, and get your emotions back in check. It is hard, but hang in there—you will need your energy for the terrible twos.








By Doug Muise, Mar 27, 2009
I remember when our new baby had trouble sleeping I would put her in the car seat thingy and gently swing her back and forth while curling my arms. She would usually fall right asleep and I beefed up my biceps in the process! (Of course now I'm completely out of shape again!)
By Carolyn Schlicher, May 07, 2009
Barbara--I'm so glad you really stressed getting out and getting with other people. I think the mental recovery was harder for me than the getting fit afterwards.
One other thing I found helpful was to wear my baby up front in a Snuggli, because it kept my back straighter and when I had to pick something up at a lower level I had to work my core muscles to stay straight so not to tip the baby. I also loved feeling the warmth of him/her near to me again.
By cnyspagirl, May 08, 2009
When my son was born almost 7 years ago, I joined a local chapter of Moms Club International. It was the smartest move I could have made at the time. The other moms had advice on EVERYTHING and it was so comforting to be with other moms who had been through it all.
Between the meetings, playgroups that formed and field trips to just about everywhere in town, my new baby and I were sooo busy. When I went back to work (part time) when my son was 11 weeks old, I missed not being able to get together with the moms in the group.
My son is in school full time now and the moms group has grown into more than 500 members (no longer part of Moms Club International). Some of the women I met in those first few months are my closest friends. If you can find such a group in your local area.....join, join, join.
By Amy E, May 20, 2009
I think we should cut ourselves as new mom's a little slack after having a baby. Sometimes we get so caught up in looking perfect. Take your time ,get your rest. Just taking a stroll to clear you mind is sometimes the best thing you can do for yourself at this time in your life!
By Amy L, May 28, 2009
I love this advice. When I lived on base there was a jogger moms group - I didn't join but I thought it was great!
By Krissy, Jun 24, 2009
ha i thought i was going to be able to fit in my clothes and start working out right after my baby was born... wow i was wrong...
i didnt start working about until about 3-4 months after the baby but once i did everything just melted off...
i am nursing so i know that has a lot to do with it. i practice my yoga and now pilates and continue to do my little weights and cardio. also i just want to say that the tracy anderson post pregnancy dvd is great for the abs.
eating healthy lots of fruits and veggies and water!!! i think i lost over 40pounds since he was born in october
By Janet G, Jul 13, 2009
I have a few friends who are pregnant and will pass this info along to them!
By Barbara Streett, Jul 19, 2009
I agree that there is so much pressure in the media to get your pre pregnancy body back within a few weeks. One can turn the pages of any magazine and see a celebrity looking better than they did before baby. They have nannies, chefs, and personal trainers.
Us, regular folk need to remember this and just concentrate on getting back into shape slowly and more importantly focusing on getting mentally fit as well. As I always say Happy Mommy = Happy Children.